Thursday, 20 September 2012

Tantra, Történelem, Tudomány


Tantra beszélgetések


Tantra, Történelem, Tudomány

Ha még mindig azt hiszed, hogy a Káma Szutrának bármi köze is lenne a Tantrához és érdekel a neurobiológia ...

...Tantra - ahogy talán még nem ismerted

Vallási és társadalmi kondicionálás és minták gyakran még ma is megfosztják a nőket elidegeníthetetlen joguktól,  kreativitásuk és érzékiségük megélésétől. A probléma egy része az, hogy a férfi energiát magasztaló és  imádó kultúrában élünk, ami az elismerésért küzdő nőket arra kényszeríti, hogy maszkulin mintára  viselkedjenek, ami a női energiáik rovására megy. A valódi nőiség  szerepe, ereje és hatása nem kap elismerést, sőt tudat alatt még félnek is tőle. Ez a kultúra gyakran elvonja a nők figyelmét önmagukról, testükről és gyakran képtelenek felismerni és megvalósitani   kreativitásukat, kifejezni érzelmi szükségleteiket, vágyaikat és érzékiségüket. 

Valójában, mi férfiak és nők egyaránt  érintettek vagyunk, ha a nők  képtelenek elérni és  meriteni belső teremtőerejüktől és érzékiségüktől. Mert ha a nők számára elérhetetlen saját  feminin teremtő erejük, testükből  és természetükből eredő kreativitás forrása , akkor ez az a különleges női teremtő erő a férfiak számára is elérhetetlen, ami kettős tragédia.

Beszélgetés az Istennő kultusz szerepéről a Tantra kialákulásaban. A vallástörténeti alapokat feltáró beszélgetés során betekintünk a tantrikus elemeket tatartalmazó Summér templomi költészetébe és a Bibliába. Gyöngyszemként elemezzük a  mantra - OM MANI PADME HUM eredeti jelenését
(A Dalai Láma szerint, ez a tibeti buddhizmus egyik legfontosabb mantrája. Buddha összes tanítását magába foglalja. De valojában honnan származik ez a mantra?)
 
 
Zsigmond André Imre,  BA(hons), MA, (University of London) Dip.OT, ITEC,  a londoni egyetem vallástörténeti szakán tanult, amikor felfigyelt a vallás, az egészség és a gyógyítás kapcsolatára a keleti kultúrákban, vallásokban.  Ez késztette arra, hogy különböző keleti és nyugati stílusú masszázsokat, aromaterápiát, reflexológiát, majd visszatérve az egyetemre pszichológiát tanuljon.  Kutatómunkájában a masszázs, emberi érintés és érintés-hiány pszichológiai hatását tanulmányozta és jelenlegi érdeklődési köre is érintés-masszázsterápia. Elsősorban olyan  problémákkal foglalkozik amelyek pszichés eredetűek – szorongás, depresszió, szenvedélybetegségek, anorexia, bulémia, test-kép zavarok és jó eredménnyel kezel olyanokat, akiknek pszichológiai vagy érzelmi trauma, (szexualis) erőszak következtében vannak nehézségeik pozitív önértékeléssel és test-tudatukkal.

Saturday, 15 September 2012

Mythology, Menstruation and the Land of Milk and Honey

 
 
I first became aware of the personal, cultural and religious significance of menstruation during my post-graduate research of the origins of male circumcision. Among other theories, the term “menstruation envy” – men’s desire to equal and imitate menstruation, creating parallel menstrual rituals - were suggested in studies of different cultures all over the world. This revelation was the opening to me to search for, and discover the Goddess. (First published in "Goddess Pages")

Olympia
The Temple of Hera at Olympia is thought to be by far the oldest and predates the temple of Zeus (470 BCE - completed circa 456 BCE). In fact the earliest Greek temple, according to Carl Kerényi, was that of Hera, and it was a prototype for the later, more "Olympian structures”.
Hera’s first Temple - the Heraion of Samos - was a sanctuary on the Southern region of Samos. Research has revealed many of construction phases, the first dating to the 8th century BCE. The religion of Hera included menstrual rituals to follow the cycles of the moon and every four years the Goddess Hera was celebrated at the games & feast of the Heraia, where only women ran races. Runners were selected from three age groups representing the phases of the moon. These special games, Carl Kerényi believes, originated what became the Olympic Games.
Pre-Olympian Myth: On the day of the new moon, women of the city walked together to the river Eleutherion (ελευθεριον - freedom) - the Water of Freedom. They bathed and then gathered branches from the lygos bushes, which they laid in a circle. With the blessing of Hera, the lygos encouraged the flow of their menstrual blood that would complete the cleansing. As evening approached, they called upon the Goddess in Her appearance as the Moon. Or as Carl Kerényi has called Her "the spellbinding moonlight of Greece", the "origin of all things". Gradually Hera drew forth the blood of purification and renewed fertility.
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Working as a complementary therapist in London, I have seen a significant increase in the number of women seeking help for menstrual problems in the last few years. During the course of treatments, I have time and again observed an overwhelming need to talk in detail about the physical and emotional experience of menstruation, as if there was an unstoppable desire to make it a shared experience.
Having read Comparative Religion at post-graduate level, I often see these occasions as an opportunity to recall the history of the Goddess as Her origin relates inextricably to the rituals and mythology of menstruation. Clients find these sessions especially healing, but Her story has not only engendered amazement, but often rage – anger, that this rich heritage is not in the public domain and is missing from general culture and awareness.
During treatments, these conversations have repeatedly developed into integral part of some sessions, leading to requests to give talks on the history of the Goddess as it relates to menstruation. Consequently I have returned to the library of the University of London, my alma mater, to have another look at the literature and some of the archaeological, historical and etymological sources on this topic.
The Moon
 
Detail Image for art Menstrual NightThe phases of the Moon affect the ebb and flow of the tides on earth. The Moon also affects our mood as well. The gravitational pull of the Moon affects all bodies of water, including the human body system, primarily made of water. Most commonly, women tend to ovulate around the time of the full moon and begin menstruating just before or around the new moon. Many cultures throughout time have referred to a woman's menses as her "Moon time". From ancient times people recognized the connection of the Moon’s cyclic nature with the cyclic nature of women's menstrual cycles. Many creation myths follow the familiar theme that menstrual blood was the source, from which the World and humans were created. Greek, Roman, Norse, Celtic, Egyptian, Hindu and aboriginal Australian creation myths, all refer to the mysterious and sacred nature of the Moon's cycle and menstrual blood-flow as the very origin of life and Creation.
While Genesis, the most familiar creation story to the Western mind, in the Bible does not appear to echo this premise - God creating Earth simply from chaos and later forming the first man, Adam from earth, breathing soul into him. A closer examination of the original Hebrew text, however appears to reflect earlier creation myths that place a kind of primordial blood as the fundamental source of creation. Thus an examination of the Hebrew reveal that words for earth - adamah - and human/man – adam - can be traced to the actual root word: dam meaning blood. It is also important to note that unlike English, in the Hebrew language nouns are divided into feminine and masculine gender and interestingly both words (mother) earth (adamah) and soul(nefesh) are in the feminine gender.
Researching and analysing this theme from entirely diverse backgrounds, Chris Knight , Judy Grahn , as well as authors of  The Wise Wound’ and others, in their writings on different cultures and world mythologies, have shown that all religious ceremonies, rites originated from ancient menstrual rituals. Menstrual blood was considered by the earliest cultures to be one of the most sacred substances since it is the only kind of blood that's not linked to death and dying – but to the potential for new life.
In ancient times, the obvious and visible relationship between phases of the Moon and the female cycle clearly indicated women’s special relationship with nature generally and uniquely with the Moon. It has been suggested that the very first religious rituals developed, when in harmony with nature, as the New Moon menstrual synchrony was celebrated in small communities by women. In various cultures the Moon became the symbol of menstruation and femininity. This is again reflected in language: in Latin languages - luna and once more in Hebrew - levanah, one of the expressions for moon is feminine.
Wisdom
A woman's cyclical life opens her to a vast elemental force that is both deeply intimate and at the same time cosmic; euphoric, creative, erotic and healing. She can enter the depth of this sphere monthly at menstruation and the menstrual cycle is itself can be the guidance for fully understanding and realizing this power, writes Alexandra Pope in the “Wild Genie”.
For our ancestors this power reflected the rhythms of Mother Earth as the female body is also able to renew, nurture, give birth, nourish and feed new life. For early humans it seemed that it is by design that the menstrual blood, the only blood that is not the result of illness or violence, holds the blessing and wisdom of Goddess Earth and each and every woman carry within herself HER wisdom and blessing.
The negative patriarchal attitudes to the Goddess, menstruation and women generally during the last 5,000 years are well documented today. Yet it is significant that in ancient Greece the Goddess Athena remained the representative of “Wisdom”. Later with the emergence of Christianity the very name Sophia, meaning “wisdom”, perpetuated this link between female blood and wisdom.
In the English language the words “blood” and “blessing” has been traced back to a common root: bleodswean - “to sanctify with blood” - according to The Woman's Encyclopaedia of Myths and Secrets. Here, Barbara Walker suggests that the word has its origin in menstrual rituals.
The Kabbalah teaches us the Scriptures are full of alluded meanings. So it should not come as a surprise that the Hebrew word for blessing - berachah - is feminine. Moreover, in Hebrew, words that represent wisdom - hochmah, insight - binah, knowledgedaat, are all feminine.
Healing
Menstrual blood was not only seen as fundamental and central part of ritual, and perhaps magic. It was also widely viewed as a universal elixir of life. Ancient Taoist teachings imply that a person consuming it, could achieve longevity or even eternal life. Ayurvedic medical practices recorded the use of menstrual blood, and in the past it could be prescribed, both for internal and external use.
In Olympia the life of the Gods depended on ambrosia: the mixture of the Goddess Hera’s menstrual blood and honey ensuring their immortality. As well as the Moon, honey was also associated and used as a synonym for menstrual blood in many cultures. The word “honeymoon", according to The Woman's Encyclopaedia, refers to the lunar month following the wedding that would include a menstrual period, the real source of what was euphemistically called moon-honey. According to ancient beliefs, the groom had to be literally in contact with the source of life; the menstrual blood of the bride. There are similar expressions today in different languages. The Hungarian language has comparable traditions, calling this time mézeshetek - “honeyed weeks”.
Milk and honey
In popular thinking, the Jews of the Hebrew Bible shared a common belief system, ruled by a male God. The evidence from the Bible itself paints a different picture. Raphael Patai, the noted Biblical scholar and author of The Hebrew Goddess states: "... it would be strange if the Hebrew-Jewish religion, which flourished for centuries in a region of intensive goddess cults, had remained immune to them." Archaeologists have uncovered Hebrew settlements where the goddesses Asherah and Astarte-Anath were routinely worshipped. And in fact, for about 3,000 years, the Hebrews worshipped female deities.
The enduring presence of the feminine facet of God, the female deity, Sechina, in the Hebrew Bible also backs up Patai’s thesis. This is supported by evidence from wall paintings in the earliest known synagogue - built in the middle of the 3rd century CE at Dura Europos (in present day Syria). In the most sacred area of the building, the heroic women of the Old Testament are portrayed on the murals. Only one central figure is shown nude on the frescos. Raphael Patai, relying on early rabbinic literature, the Midrash, convincingly presents a case that the naked female figure is God’s female aspect - the Shechina.
The eternally present, but never actually revealed divine feminine, never ceases to permeate the language - lashon, soul - nefesh and landeretz, of the Hebrew Scriptures. Can it be just a coincidence that these words are all feminine?
It is universally known that in Judaism, contact with menstrual blood is not permitted and consuming any kind of blood is forbidden as blood is believed to contain the (feminine) nefesh - soul (Leviticus 17: 14). The Kabbalah points out however that, after giving birth, the mother’s body transforms menstrual blood, to life-giving milk to feed the baby.
The familiar biblical phrase in Deuteronomy (11:9) “A land flows with milk and honey - 'eretz zavat halav udvash’ - appears several times in the Bible, and serves as the description of the land of Israel. This phrase can be understood at many levels. The simple meaning is - a rich and fertile land. In Numbers (13:23), we read that the scouts return with pomegranates, figs and grapes as a confirmation that it is a land 'flowing with milk and honey'.
Here, repeatedly, the reader comes across an imagery of the feminine that was widespread in the ancient world. Pomegranates were a universal symbol of fertility because of their many seeds, and at the same time of menstruation because of the vivid blood red colour. In mythology, the pomegranate was a symbol of the Aegean Triple Goddess who evolved into Hera, who is often represented offering the pomegranate. The fig in early and oriental cultures was similarly a symbol of the feminine and fertility. In ancient Rome, where Hera has evolved to Juno, She was celebrated as Goddess of the wild fig tree. Ancient rabbinic literature also records discussions among the sages, suggesting that the “forbidden fruit” of the ‘tree of knowledge’ in the Garden of Eden was either the fig or the pomegranate that has given Adam and Eve sexual knowledge.
It is difficult not to notice the rich sexual and clearly menstrual imagery here. The fact that milk and honey are both considered feminine substances, literally or symbolically, strengthens this argument. Additionally the word 'zavat' , which is translated as ‘flowing’ or 'oozing' , usually appears in the Bible within the context of sexual and body fluids, including semen and menstrual blood.
There is further evidence to support this interpretation of the feminine. The sexual imagery of the Bible in King Solomon’s poetry uses similar expressions. In the Song of Songs (4:11), we read: 'milk and honey are under your tongue’. Later (5:1) the erotic imagery of the feminine or even menstrual, seems even more explicit: “I have come into my garden, my sister, my spouse: I have gathered my myrrh, with my spice; I have eaten my honey-comb with my honey; I have drank my wine with my milk: eat, O friends; drink, yes, drink abundantly, O beloved.”
Searching for an additional layer of meaning, when exploring the word “honey” again the Kabbalah puts forward an effortless but compelling argument, simply by using numerology - gematria, the study of the numerical value of Hebrew letters to reveal hidden meanings of words of the Bible. It draws attention to the fact that the value of the letters in the word dvash - honey and the word isha - woman is equal. The numerical value in both words is 306. 3+0+6=9. Once again the timeless, pre-Olympian Hera comes to mind, Goddess of fecundity, renewing her fertility in the river at the new moon, revealing Her sacred number - 9.
©André Zsigmond







References:

Kerényi, C (1975) Zeus and Hera: Archetypal Image of Father, Husband and Wife , Princeton University Press
Patai, R (1990) The Hebrew Goddess , (3rd enlarged edition) Wayne State University Press
Knight, C (1988) Menstrual Synchrony and the Australian Rainbow Snake, In T. Buckley and A. Gottlieb (eds), Blood Magic: The Anthropology of Menstruation , California: University of California Press
Grahn, J (1993) Blood, Bread, and Roses: How Menstruation Created the World, Boston: Beacon Press
Shuttle, P; Redgrove, P (2005) The Wise Wound, London: Marion Boyars Publishers
Pope, A (2001) The Wild Genie: The Healing Power of Menstruation, Sally Milner Publishing
Walker, B (1983) The Woman's Encyclopedia of Myths and Secrets , HarperSanFrancisco

Monday, 30 July 2012

Childhood abuse may stunt growth of part of brain involved in emotions

Many women and men who have been subjected to severe physical or sexual abuse during childhood suffer from long-term psychological and emotional disturbances. They may be invaded by nightmares and flashbacks, or conversely, may freeze into benumbed calm in situations of extreme stress. Recent studies find that survivors of child abuse may also have a smaller hippocampus relative to control subjects. If substantiated, the discovery could fill out the profile of an abuse survivor and help define what constitutes abuse.

The amygdala and the hippocampus are part of the limbic system. A study by Teicher et al. (1993) found a 38% increased rate of limbic abnormalities ('emotional brain') following physical abuse, 49% after sexual abuse.


Being sexually or emotionally abused as a child can affect the development of a part of the brain that controls memory and the regulation of emotions, a study suggests. Three key areas of the hippocampus in the brain were smaller in people who reported maltreatment in childhood.

The results add to the growing body of evidence that childhood maltreatment or abuse raises the risk of mental illnesses such as depression, personality disorders and anxiety well into adulthood.

Martin Teicher of the department of psychiatry at Harvard University scanned the brains of almost 200 people who had been questioned about any instances of abuse or stress during childhood. He found that the volumes of three important areas of the hippocampus were reduced by up to 6.5% in people exposed to several instances of maltreatment – such as physical or verbal abuse from parents – in their early years.

"The exquisite vulnerability of the hippocampus to the ravages of stress is one of the key translational neuroscience discoveries of the 20th century," wrote Teicher in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.

Thursday, 26 July 2012

India: No country for women?

Every 25 minutes a woman is raped in India !
20 women killed every day for dowry !
I have never envisaged a debate on Indian television suggesting that in India, the birthplace of Tantra, the home of the Dalai Lama, etc - India: No country for women http://www.ndtv.com/video/player/ndtv-special-ndtv-24x7/india-no-country-for-women/238869 http://www.ndtv.com/video/player/news/fromndtv/238869

Wednesday, 25 July 2012

The Body in Psychotherapy - a "touching" letter from 'C'

"Hi Andre,

Now I have had some time to reflect on our afternoon I could probably look you in the eye again!

It was a liberating experience. Im not sure what I was expecting but I enjoyed it, afterwards I felt really good. I had been going through a bad time but whatever you did really helped, I felt much more centred and happy.

Until now I had never thought about my formative years in terms of touch before. I only knew the abusive kind I guess... :(

I'm aware most childhoods are dysfunctional and mine's no different. Since you asked, and perhaps in a way this may explain some of my reluctance to let go; Im a girl with daddy issues! ...my father left my mother when I was very young not to return. After 18 months old my mother only ever fed me bread and water, as a consequence I have a severely limited diet and food problems today, although somewhat improved. I had a non-relationship with my stepfather. They had two daughters but I remained out-cast and used as a childminder. Soon after I made bad relationship and life choices involving sexual/physical abuse some of which I experienced while underage with my stepfathers friend... The first 20 years sucked!
 
 
... I thought as sexually open as I am I would be fine...However Ive come to the conclusion that there is no hiding here, what I experienced was authentic and real and all the while I can keep up with the best of them, truly surrendering is another thing all together... Thank you for your time, Tantra is definitely something I want to explore :)

I also need to return your umbrella!

Regards,
C "

Wednesday, 18 July 2012

Tantra, The Kama Sutra & the Song of Songs - שִׁיר הַשִּׁירִים: a comparison

Rape, Murder and Misogyny - The Real Revelations of the Kama Sutra 

“The following women are not suitable as lovers: A leper, a lunatic, an older woman, a woman ostracized by her caste..., a woman who is too black...” 
 Kama Sutra of Vātsyāyana (Part One, Ch:5)
  “I am black and beautiful, O daughters of Jerusalem, as the tents of Cedar, as the curtains of Solomon.” 
 The Song of Songs (1:5)


“How beautiful your sandaled feet...

Your graceful legs are like jewels, the work of an artist’s hands.

Your navel /vulva is a rounded goblet that never lacks blended wine

 Your waist is a mound of wheat encircled by lilies.

Your breasts are like two fawns, like twin fawns of a gazelle

Your neck is like an ivory tower

 Your eyes are the pools of Heshbon

 by the gate of Bath Rabbim. Your nose ...

Your head crowns you like Mount Carmel

 Your hair is like royal tapestry;

 the king is held captive by its tresses.

 How beautiful you are and how pleasing,

 my love, with your delights! Your stature is like that of the palm...”   (Song of Songs 7:1-7)



Friday, 22 June 2012

Girl Beheaded by Father in Goddess- loving India

AN INDIAN father has cut off his daughter's head and paraded it around his village after becoming enraged over her “promiscuity”.   Full story: the Telegraph

Ancient Tantric Goddess Worship - Past and Present

‘‘Women are heaven,women are dharma (truth); women are the supreme fire of transformation.
Women are Buddha; women are the sangha (community); women are the Perfection of Wisdom...”
(Candamaharosana-tantra, circa 8th century CE)
...in the birthplace of Tantra, ancient India, women occupied a very important position, in fact a superior position to men. It was a culture whose word for strength and power is "Shakti'', the embodiment of the goddess, meaning "power'' and "strength.''
Today however the position of women in India seems to be very different and it appears that women have little to celebrate, as observations made by Osho over 30 years ago, come to mind:
“The women of India are living in utter slavery; their slavery is doubled.”1
Still, it came as a surprise, when last year an independent study placed India among the top five countries in the world, as the worst place for women to live and survive,2 for several reasons.
A spate of exceptionally brutal rapes of “untouchable”, Dalit women shocked India last year.3 The country is also ranked as particularly dangerous because of high levels of female infanticide. This practice has a long history in India: because of the widespread cultural preference for sons, many baby girls used to be killed soon after birth and today female foeticide - the sex-selective abortion of girls - has led to an alarming "gender gap" in the country’s population.
Moreover, India has been ranked the fourth worst country in the world for women in view of the fact that, in spite of legislation making dowry illegal, dowry demands still result in an estimated 25,000 dowry deaths/murders of women a year. Similarly, although new law now gives India's 45 million or so widows better protection, long-established social custom still rules out remarriage. Prevailing superstition throughout India links a widow - and even holds her responsible for - the death of her husband. Blamed for the fate of their husbands, they are culturally ostracized, socially marginalized. Traumatized by their personal loss, they are twice discriminated: as women and as widows. Domestic violence also affects a wide section of Indian society.4
Tradition still prevails with continued intolerance against menstruating women. During menstruation, women are considered to belong to the lowest caste, Shudra, and are thus prohibited from entering and worshipping in Hindu temples, with notices on temples reminding menstruating women not to enter.
Hindu religious authorities continue to debate if women are suitable to chant the Gayatri Mantra. It is believed that this mantra is one the most powerful mantras in Hinduism, which when chanted accurately will bestow strength, knowledge, bliss, right path, courage, success and glory. Traditionally women are banned from reciting it. Paradoxically, Goddess Gayatri is the personification of the mantra as she is considered the Veda Mata, the mother of all Vedas. So the prohibition on women is astonishing...